Friday, 24 January 2014

Bacon and Black Pudding

Would you look at all that yoghurt???



I can't believe it's 2014! Where has the time gone?  So I've been back to the UK twice in the last month - not good for my carbon footprint but very good for catching up with friends and family.  And it was my friends who pointed out that the blog has been a bit quiet of late.....





So, I thought I would rectify this whilst sitting in Dubai airport where I have about 6 hours to wait for the flight to Dhaka.  With 6 hours in Dubai airport, what to do to keep busy?  Well -

(a) I've been on the phone to the kids:

"mummy, where are you?"

"mummy, are you on the plane yet?"

"mummy, where are you?"

"mummy, when are you home?"

and so on.

Peter has been in sole charge of the kids for the past 10 days.  I say sole charge, I mean overall charge, afterall we have help from the lovely Anjouna who is our 'ayah' and who, entertainingly for all (including Anjouna!) is about 5 inches taller than Isobel.  Will Isobel catch up her before we leave that is the question??

Anyway, it appears Peter (and his 'team' as he calls them) has done well, the kids are still alive and clearly, judging by the noise, very well!

(b) I've drunk some coffee

Quite a lot of coffee actually.  I'm on a mission to try to stay awake so that when I arrive in Dhaka I can fall into blissful slumber for the whole night through....I wish.

(c) I've pondered going shopping

And then decided against it.  I've decided to stay still, sitting quietly in my little corner.  Dubai is a funny airport, it's all modern and swishy but it's also one massive shopping centre and it's rammed full of people - at 3 am, 6 am, 9 am - basically all the time, all milling about the shopping lane!

(d) I've pondered my visits to the UK

We came back to the UK for Christmas - back to the storms and the rain.  The kids woke up at about 4.30 am for the first week.  It's pitch black outside, kids TV hasn't started and you're in someone else's house trying to keep the kids vaguely quiet.  Ah, what fun it was. They muttered it was cold, they wanted to go back to Bangladesh where it was warm (and then were most disappointed when we got back to Bangladesh and it was noticeably colder than it had been!).  We kept them very busy (I've added some links in case anyone is wondering what or where on earth these places are!):



And of course, seeing family, eating too much and generally having a good time.

And now we are back in the Desh.  We stayed up till the wee hours on New Years Eve for the first time in 5 years!  No more sitting in our PJs and recording the fireworks for us, it's party time!  I have been back to the UK again and am now looking forward to getting back to the crazy kids (and the crazy dad!).  But being back in the UK gives you time to contemplate things, including things you miss and things you don't.  So here goes:

Things I miss when I'm in the Desh (apart from friends and family!):
  • Frost.  OK, there hasn't been a lot of frost this winter by all accounts, but when I saw the frost one morning this week I was so happy. I love it.  Cold, crisp and frosty.  Perfect day for a walk.
  • Walking.  Obviously I can walk in Dhaka - I walk to work, we walk out in the peri-urban space, but to really walk - walk along pavements or along the river in London, walk up a big hill, walk walk walk.
  • Bacon and Black Pudding - oh, I do.  I really do.  I hadn't thought about it but then I had some at the fabulous Regency Cafe (http://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Restaurant_Review-g186338-d1986778-Reviews-Regency_Cafe-London_England.html).  Thank you Maggie for taking me there and thank you to the lovely woman running the joint and her '2 toasts for the lady.....tomato and black pudding for the lady' (we were the only ladies in there at 8am!).
  • Oxygen.  There is oxygen in the air in London - it's amazing how you notice how much cleaner the air is, despite being a big city itself.  London should be proud - the air is pretty clean and the rivers have fish in them!
  • Supermarkets.  I know, sad I know.  I did get so much joy from wandering around Waitrose though....just wandering, gazing at the ridiculous choice in yoghurts!
And things I love about the Desh:


7 Sisters Country Park - beautiful
  • The lack of requirement to wear 50 layers in winter - and then get too hot when you go into a shop or onto a bus and have to take them all off! Not having to bundle the kids up in so many clothes to go outside.  Lovely.
  • Attempting to speak Bangla and seeing such smiles on peoples faces - and they have time for you to help you learn!
  • Cycling to work in 5 minutes
  • Not having to get on the Tube or a Train or a Bus to get to work....
  • The help and support we have which means we can spend so much more time focused on the kids when we're not at work - it just wouldn't be possible in the UK
  • .....and finally, the ever so slightly dodgy DVDs which enable us to keep vaguely up to date with the HBO hit series....and the Disney Princesses!